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Aban ibn Taghlib, may Allah have mercy on him, has said, “I visited a woman whose son had just died. She came out to him, closed his eyelids and directed his corpse towards the Ka’ba. Then she said, ‘O son! What good is fretting about something which never lasts? Weeping should be over what will tomorrow descend on you. O son! Taste what your father tasted, and after you your mother shall taste it, too. The greatest rest for this body is sleep, and sleep is a sibling of death. What difference should it make to you whether you sleep on your bed or on something else? Tomorrow there will be questioning, Paradise and Hell; if you are among the residents of Paradise, how can death bring you any harm at all? And if you are among the residents of Hell, what benefit should life bring you even if you live longer than anyone else? By Allah, O son, had death been among the most of noble things for the descendants of Adam, Allah would not have caused His Prophet, peace and blessings be with him an...

Ethics for Arguing The first question to ask yourself is why do we argue. Feeling compelled to have a winner and a loser in the conversation can be counterproductive. The real benefit is seen in participating in an engaging and active disagreement. Here is a look at some of the most amazing quotes about arguing with idiots that are great. Arguing with a fool proves; there are two. Arguing with a person who cannot admit defeat is like adding more fire wood to the fire. Arguing with an idiot makes you more of an idiot yourself! Behind every argument is someone’s ignorance. Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument. I never make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect. If you go in for argument, take care of your temper. Your logic, if you have any, will take care of itself. Immature people always want to win arguments even at the cost of a relationship. Mature ones prefer losing an argument just to uphold a golden relationship. It is impossible to def...

Lifestyle Change Importance of a Vigilant Consultant Sheikh Sb shifted from old house, enjoyed his dream living in the last 6 years of his life. He left a lot for his family. https://youtu.be/LWWbXd46Wy0 Free Time or Busy Time = Route For Success Henry Ford was paying maximum to a person who was doing nothing. Ronald Reagan promised and delivered an even more vigorous anti Russia foreign policy. Margaret Hilda Thatcher, UK Iron Lady. Bill Gates and Warren Buffett have most free time in life. They get ideas and work on those ideas to achieve success. https://javedch.com/javed-chaudhry-urdu-columns/2021/01/28/747451 Aminah Assilmi, an American broadcaster; Formerly a Southern Baptist preacher, she converted to Islam in 1977 in college while trying to convert some Muslims to Christianity. Talks on need and importance of knowledge of small life routines. https://youtu.be/O7MyxpmMfHc Educating Helps https://www.tiktok.com/@therichb/video/7025245196170317061?is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=...

Zahraa B. [ 1:45 ] Would you get married again? Yes [ 2:50 ] Does x live nearby? Sharing custody of kids 50%, living in the same city [ 4:43 ] Thoughts on living with in-laws? No [ 6:25 ] Toxic marriage while having kids? Financial dependence is a problem [ 9:00 ] When to walk away? Clear understanding of self. Put your spouse in situation and test. Make Qs to analyze [ 12:35 ] When is the right time for children? It depends [ 14:14 ] Is the person right for me? Have a list of Qs to analyze To ask the right question is already half the solution of a problem. [ 16:00 ] Parents and other races/cultures? [ 21:21 ] How are children affected? [ 22:27 ] The process of divorce? [ 23:38 ] Age differences in marriage? [ 24:58 ] Hardest part of marriage/divorce? [ 30:02 ] Finding someone after divorce? [ 33:50 ] Do cheaters change their ways? [ 34:53 ] How to have healthy relationship? [ 39:16 ] Do Shia and Sunni work? [ 42:50 ] Living away when divorced? [ 44:52 ] Qualities that make good spou...

 Summary of video adequate  1. Learning adequate stair walking keep yourself one sided left or right  2. Learning training waiter and hospitality courses with discipline adequate  3. Allows permission set time schedule  4. Open door discipline  5. Learn handshake adequate  6. Learning communication style  7. Keep distance with people sitting  8. Never involved every talking debate  9. Never spitting  10. Keep use perfume light  11. Use mobile carefully  12. Maintain line discipline  13. Speaking politely humble words  14. Give respect  to earn respect  15. Speaking gently with teamwork https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugwNGtLyHO8 When does Allah increase one's provision? Ibrahim (Abraham) 14:7 وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيدٌ And [remember the time] when your Sustainer made [this promise] known: 'If you are grateful [to Me], I shall m...

Culture Never Changed in 350 Years MashaAllah François Bernier was a French physician and traveler. He wrote his observations in 1658 – 1670. He had a chance to see Aurangzeb and Kashmir (1664–65). In 350 years, we, the Indian, Pakistanis are situated on the place. Here middle class doesn’t exist. We have two extremes, poor and rich. Flattering and favor seeking is common. Markets unorganized, no cleanliness especially food stuff. You can find fortunetellers everywhere. Clean water is unavailable. People drink wine but not publicly. People hate each other with different reasons (rich poor, religiously ….). Fertile land but with no productivity. People are good skilled handyman but they believe in individualism. They keep money, don’t use for industry. They are poor but ladies use expensive ornaments. Education system has no quality. No proper medical treatment. Corruption is everywhere. Government officials have unlimited powers. They spend money luxuriously. Housing has no standardiza...